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Default Apr 29, 2019 at 01:49 AM
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Hoping someone can help me figure out what this dream means.

My coworkers and I were in an upper story apartment hiding from a 'villain'. In order to hide we set up a bunch of curtains. As it turns out, we were supposed to be selling this apartment. So, 3 people show up to take a look at the property. Two women and a man. One of the women and the man are married. One of my male coworkers is very flamboyant and convinced all three people to get naked before seeing with property with him. He puts on such a good display that they oblige. When I look around, me and my coworkers are in our hotel uniforms and have no plans to also get naked. When the group of people finish their tour, the man pulls me aside. He is very rude and starts to question why I have my job. When I try to answer he starts to mimic and mock me. He makes it very clear to me that while his wife wants to buy the apartment, he does not and he does not know how to tell her. By this point he is annoying me and I just want him to leave. So I lead him to the same room as his wife. I take him behind the bookshelf and push him on the floor. I straddle him, getting close enough to feel his hard on. I whisper in his ear how I convince my husband not to buy something. This satisfies him and he gets up to speak with his wife. I leave and go into the kitchen to admit to my coworkers that I convinced the man not to buy the space. To my surprise they are not mad and understand. Then I wake up.

Any thoughts? This dream trouble me since it verges on the edge of sexual exploitation without fully committing. And because I can’t figure out who the villain was, why they were there, or why I was selling a house when I work in the hotel industry.
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Default May 06, 2019 at 03:37 PM
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I don't know much about interpreting dreams, but I believe they're mostly just a jumble of things that's on your mind, conciously or not. Things you fear, things you worry about, all mixed up with bits and pieces of things you've seen, heard, smelled, felt etc. The different parts of your dream might not have anything to do with each other. Just different things you're scared of or anxious about. Being afraid that you're not good enough at your job is fairly normal, I would think. I have dreams about that quite a lot, even though I'm fairly confident that I am good at it. And the fear of doing mistakes, messing up, having people gt angry with you. I have also had dreams where I have abused, or been close to abuse someone sexually. It's uncomfortable as hell to dream things like that, but I don't think it means you would do it in real life, or want to do it, or almost do it. But I also have a lot of compulsive thoughts like "what if I did that" or "what if I said that", thinking if I did it, I could never face those people again. When my kids were infants I had a lot of compulsive thoughts about hurting them, which totally freaked me out. I KNOW I would never have done it, but the thought that I could have, physically, if I wanted, and they wouldn't be able to do ANYTHING WHATSOEVER to protect themselves, was so scary. But I think it had to do with me not really trusting anyone, myself included, not trusting human beings in general. Thinking the world would have been a better place without us etc.

I don't know if this made any sense to you.. Just a few thoughts from a tired brain ;-)
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