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Default Sep 21, 2019 at 08:17 AM
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hello ..never thought about the title, until this morning I had a nightmare about me and my wife having the most embarrassing public sex humiliation.. After having warmed her up to it, she went into the lavatory of my old university building, that part of the building was barely used in real life. I took her out of the small room and into the bigger lavatory for the disabled, which transformed slowly from a closed walls room into an open area, adjacent to appearing concierge room and suddenly with people passing by. it was really painful, i saw my wife hiding almost naked and I could not do anything.

In real life we are barely intimate, she does not show any temptation to it anymore , while I crave several times the day to have sex.
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a little help please..>

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Hello Tim Inacy: I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central. Two additional forums, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the relationships forum & the men-focused support forum. Here are links to these forums:

https://psychcentralforums.com/relat...communication/

https://psychcentralforums.com/men-focused-support/

Since you posted this in the sleep issues & dream interpretation forum, I presume you're looking for insight into the meaning of your dream. I'm not knowledgeable with regard to dream interpretation. So I can't personally be of any help with this. However here are links to 4 articles, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject:

Dreams: Your Inner Guidance

Interpret Your Own Dreams - Some Guidelines | Healing Together for Couples

How to Analyze Your Dreams (And Why It's Important)

https://psychcentral.com/lib/9-commo...dium=popular17

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Default Sep 23, 2019 at 04:31 PM
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You said she doesn’t want sex for “ no good reason” does this mean you already asked her what’s going on?? And her response was?

Maybe she’s dealing with hormones or depression, could she deal with pain during intercourse?

There is a long list of possible reasons why sex decreases in a relationship.

Do you both get along well other than the lack of intimacy?

Couples counseling possible?

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