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Default Feb 22, 2020 at 12:24 AM
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I’ve been thinking about how many times I haven’t given a step to connect with people due to my soon self-exclusion. Due to my soon certainty that I didn’t deserve their company. I’m writing this not to awake pity. I know it’s sad, and it brought me a lot of limitations. I wanted to vent because it’s very hard. I’m more angry at myself than sad.
Any deep relation or contact had and have to lay on a lot of reassurance that I am welcome through comfortability and insistence on the other part.

I do understand the other person. It’s hard to deal with someone who has such a low self-confidence and many times doesn’t dare to give you a needed feedback. So, I don’t have a complain on anybody, just the opposite. I’m thankful for the effort these people have done or still do for me.

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Default Feb 22, 2020 at 03:03 AM
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When it comes to let the other part ignoring your reasons of keeping your self away, I understand that this point could make the feeling of guilt appear,
But don't go further than that, don't get angry at yourself, you are only gonna make your way out tiny and narrow,
Once u declare your reasons I'm sure the other part will understand,
That's the problem in any communication between people!
Lack of connection tools, explaining yourself to them much better.
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Default Feb 22, 2020 at 03:22 AM
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This is the very best problem. I can’t tell it to people, it would make me feel very uncomfortable unless there have already been an deep approach what it’s very unlikely because of my SA. A 22-Catch situation.

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Default Feb 22, 2020 at 04:20 AM
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I want to break down this circle.

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Default Feb 22, 2020 at 04:35 AM
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You must break it down,
And best way of providing best communication, requires efforts constantly, not only on your behalf!
Ain't gonna put all the weight on your shoulders!
No body should do this! Explain to them, make a step forwards, I know it is hard, but the key is that u can do it! You have the willing,
Communication between individuals requires reconciliation of both sides,
Make step forwards you won't lose nothing!
At a least you would get rid of that stuck remorse inside you.
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