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The bullies have taken over control of my family and school mates. There is no one left untouched by them. Things will never be good again.
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I was bullied but my mom bv told me to ignore them and they'd get bored and stop. Didn't work, got worse. Wish someone would have told me to fight back.
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One effect it had on me is, as an adult, I won’t take to being bullied. I’ll fight like hell. I’ll also defend others who are weaker.
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I could use some help. I'm not familiar handling bullies and there are a few who are totally out of control. Is there a medicine they can take to settle them down? |
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How about starting your own thread and I’ll be happy to try to help with your bully issue. I read a few of your prior posts to get an idea. I’m sorry you are suffering. __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
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I think the culture of hypermasculinity makes it harder for the male victim. Especially if the bully is a girl and victim is a boy. It makes the boy feel more inadequate and makes the long term effects worse! I still feel shame and think about losing the fights to my sister and people’s reaction to me getting beaten up after so many years! |
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Great advice! I wish that I had thought about that myself!.
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Bullies are weak and insecure, they have to keep bullying to feel better, but they never do. You can't stop anyone from bullying, but you can let them know, you won't have anything to do with them, if they continue; walk away, hang up the phone. The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans saved my life ; Ithink it should be read by everyone on the planet. Iwish we would stop calling it bullying and use the term verbal abuse.
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That true! But sometimes it hard to believe in that.
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It depends on whether or not they suffer from autism spectrum disorder, or some other kind of mental illness. Most of tea time the bullies are being bullied by someone else. They are taking there anger out on their victims.
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I was bullied every day at school. I developed serious anxiety issues due to the bullying and even now cannot trust people irl.
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What matters is not where you start but where you end. I understand your regrets but your experience made you a more aware and stronger person. I can relate to having social anxiety and not being able to stand up to a bully (in my case emotional) especially if that person is much older than me. I'm glad you shared this story not just for you to find support, but to give encouragement to others. Thank you.
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Words cant describe the amount of mental and emotional torture it brought me.
Caused anxiety issues and paranoid sz afterwards, though the latter diagnosis is questionable. But deep down, I am doing whatever it takes not to let it affect me again, and it can be a struggle most of the time. I can relate to almost everything you said. |
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