Sod off you piece of **** What do you want to say to your abuser

Fuzzybear · Dec 17, 2020 at 01:23 PM

STILL here huh?

Buffy01 · Dec 18, 2020 at 05:51 PM

how could you laugh at me on the phone because I asked a question when you contacted me

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I feel so hurt even though I stood up for myself and share my knowledge to help other.

Marylin · Dec 19, 2020 at 11:28 AM

No No No NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO,I DONT LIKE YOU ANYMORE AND i CERTAINLY DONT LOVE YOU!

Fuzzybear · Dec 19, 2020 at 06:17 PM

Have Hope · Dec 21, 2020 at 10:41 AM

I'm sick of your lies. I'm sick of your games. I'm sick of you downplaying your abuse and your affair to me. I hate you. I really freaking HATE you. If you were in front of me right now, I would kICK YOU SO HARD in the nuts and where it counts. I need for this divorce to be done already. And now you refuse to reply to me? What are you, stalling? And you say this can be fixed? NO. It cannot be fixed - not ever. You have caused me SO MUCH HARM. ENOUGH. I've had it with you. You refuse to take any responsibility for your actions which only just infuriates me that much more. You have caused SO much destruction in my life, and you've caused me an enormous amount of pain. You should pay for this. I hope karma comes and bites you HARD. I wish death upon you.

Marylin · Dec 21, 2020 at 08:34 PM

Lots of reasons why I should hate you, you don't deserve even that ,hate is giving you attention ,you're not worth it, you're as I said before a nasty, malicious prick,
be gone and never think you are worthy of attention from me ever again.

Buffy01 · Dec 22, 2020 at 11:14 AM

Why can't you leave me alone? Why can't you follow your own advice before giving the advice out that used to bully me with. It is not my fault that you hate yourself So much that you feel the need to hurt other.

Werewoman · Dec 22, 2020 at 01:50 PM

Why couldn't you leave well enough alone and mind your own business? Why did you have to start a flame war? What did I do to you that made you so hostile from the beginning? You think if you tell enough lies that people will believe you? You don't realize how silly you look, trying to convince people of what a predator I am.
In the end, it will blow up in your face. I have watched as you scream at my husband, as if he would get involved, but I asked him not to. There comes a time when enough is enough. I have been beaten many many times, I was sexually molested by my stepfather, and bullied by my brothers and classmates. I have always felt like I have a target on my back. No more. You want a flame war? You got it. I have children older than you and you think I'm supposed to just take your bs? No. I'm done with bullies and monsters.

Marylin · Dec 23, 2020 at 09:07 PM

Stay away be gone,you no longer matter to me.

Have Hope · Dec 24, 2020 at 06:00 AM

I do not know why I sent you an email three years later AND after I got married. Why did I have to say "I forgive you"? Couldn't I just forgive you in my heart? NO. - I sent that stupid email while drunk on wine. I had prayed for healing from ALL the abuse I suffered, you included. You harmed me perhaps the most out of everyone. So WHY did I have to do that? Kicking myself. I've only just fed your already huge ego because you're a narc. WHY oh WHY? SO STUPID.

MrMoose · Dec 25, 2020 at 12:54 AM

Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house
Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse;
The family you shredded have all stayed away
From the chaos and anger you created each day
The children would hide all alone in their beds
Afraid of what thoughts would come into your head
And mamma with her scowl and I with my fear
Had scrambled their brains and they couldn’t think clear
Anyway we’re Jewish so for us no Santa Claus
But reindeer who visited looked well armed with claws
“On, Dasher! On Chaos, On Fighting! Now Vixen!
On, Violence! on, Hate! on, Donner und Blitzen!”
So away flew I with one precious daughter
Sadly the other child had to live with you, mother
But my household now is much calmer and quiet
And our life no longer feels like a horrible riot

And a message, dear reader, who seeks solace and light,
"Merry Christmas to all, and to all, a good night"

Marylin · Dec 25, 2020 at 08:02 AM

It is with heavy heart once I had to leave you and I knew not what malicious malarkey you had stirred and directed at me.......but now I know and my message to you is........hit the road Jack and don't come back no more,no more,hit the road Jack and don't come back no more.......these boots are made for walking and that's just what they'll do,one of these days these boots are gonna walk all over YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have Hope · Dec 27, 2020 at 07:07 AM

I forgive you for being the broken person that you are. I forgive you for all your cruelty and abuse because you do not know any better. I forgive you for hurting me and I forgive you for all your wrongdoings and failures. I let you go now because I must move on in my life - and eventually I will find someone who will treat me far better. I wish you well and I wish healing for you. Goodbye.

Marylin · Jan 01, 2021 at 04:40 PM

I am my abuser and I want to tell myself to stop the self hate,stop beating myself up for being morbidly obese,I want to love myself more and enough to care about my health and eat healthy and stop putting bad foods into my mouth,choose salads and fruit and vegetables,lean meat and low calorie foods and exercise when you can and don't beat yourself up and self hate if you can't manage to exercise every day as much as you'd like to.

Have Hope · Jan 01, 2021 at 04:50 PM

I hate you. I absolutely cannot stand you. You thoroughly appall me and disgust me. You are a most despicable human being. Now goodbye.

I actually said that to him today.

Fuzzybear · Jan 04, 2021 at 10:06 AM

**** you Go AWAY

Jan 05, 2021 at 06:59 AM

to my mental health team:

I would like to say it is a new year, and I kindly request that you leave my dead brother out of further conversations with me. he died 13 years ago. the end. you can't accept that, find someone who can and let me have a diffrent team.

Jan 05, 2021 at 06:59 AM

he's not even my brother, he's my step brother. sooo. have fun with that.

Have Hope · Jan 05, 2021 at 08:31 AM

You say you're willing. to do anything to salvage our relationship including individual therapy, yet you to date refuse to acknowledge your abuse. Therapy will never work on you.

TishaBuv · Jan 05, 2021 at 08:46 AM

I wish you had cared about me in the way that means most to me.

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Fuzzybear Wisest Elder Ever Member Since Nov 2002 Location: Cave. Posts: 96,325 (SuperPoster!) 21 81.2k hugs given	Dec 17, 2020 at 01:23 PM #281 STILL here huh? __________________

Buffy01 Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: USA Posts: 9,514 (SuperPoster!) 6 9,697 hugs given	Dec 18, 2020 at 05:51 PM #282 how could you laugh at me on the phone because I asked a question when you contacted me . I feel so hurt even though I stood up for myself and share my knowledge to help other.

Marylin Grand Magnate Member Since Feb 2015 Location: England,UK Posts: 3,017 9 863 hugs given	Dec 19, 2020 at 11:28 AM #283 No No No NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO,I DONT LIKE YOU ANYMORE AND i CERTAINLY DONT LOVE YOU!

Fuzzybear Wisest Elder Ever Member Since Nov 2002 Location: Cave. Posts: 96,325 (SuperPoster!) 21 81.2k hugs given	Dec 19, 2020 at 06:17 PM #284 __________________

Marylin Grand Magnate Member Since Feb 2015 Location: England,UK Posts: 3,017 9 863 hugs given	Dec 21, 2020 at 08:34 PM #286 Lots of reasons why I should hate you, you don't deserve even that ,hate is giving you attention ,you're not worth it, you're as I said before a nasty, malicious prick, be gone and never think you are worthy of attention from me ever again.

Buffy01 Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: USA Posts: 9,514 (SuperPoster!) 6 9,697 hugs given	Dec 22, 2020 at 11:14 AM #287 Why can't you leave me alone? Why can't you follow your own advice before giving the advice out that used to bully me with. It is not my fault that you hate yourself So much that you feel the need to hurt other.

Marylin Grand Magnate Member Since Feb 2015 Location: England,UK Posts: 3,017 9 863 hugs given	Dec 23, 2020 at 09:07 PM #289 Stay away be gone,you no longer matter to me.

Have Hope Wise Elder Member Since Dec 2017 Location: Eastern, USA Posts: 9,083 (SuperPoster!) 6 3,626 hugs given	Jan 01, 2021 at 04:50 PM #295 I hate you. I absolutely cannot stand you. You thoroughly appall me and disgust me. You are a most despicable human being. Now goodbye. I actually said that to him today. __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes

Fuzzybear Wisest Elder Ever Member Since Nov 2002 Location: Cave. Posts: 96,325 (SuperPoster!) 21 81.2k hugs given	Jan 04, 2021 at 10:06 AM #296 **** you Go AWAY __________________

Anonymous32451 Guest Posts: n/a	Jan 05, 2021 at 06:59 AM #297 to my mental health team: I would like to say it is a new year, and I kindly request that you leave my dead brother out of further conversations with me. he died 13 years ago. the end. you can't accept that, find someone who can and let me have a diffrent team.

Anonymous32451 Guest Posts: n/a	Jan 05, 2021 at 06:59 AM #298 he's not even my brother, he's my step brother. sooo. have fun with that.

Have Hope Wise Elder Member Since Dec 2017 Location: Eastern, USA Posts: 9,083 (SuperPoster!) 6 3,626 hugs given	Jan 05, 2021 at 08:31 AM #299 You say you're willing. to do anything to salvage our relationship including individual therapy, yet you to date refuse to acknowledge your abuse. Therapy will never work on you. __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes

TishaBuv Legendary Member Since Dec 2014 Location: USA Posts: 10,181 (SuperPoster!) 9 1,869 hugs given	Jan 05, 2021 at 08:46 AM #300 I wish you had cared about me in the way that means most to me. __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T