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Old 11-07-2019, 04:41 PM   #141
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I actually have two of them. You took my innocence and then dropped me off like I was a used piece of paper. Now for the 2nd . You were supposed to be family. You have tarriozed me all my life. Your a very sick person
I been terrorized by an ex family member myself.
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Old 11-07-2019, 05:17 PM   #142
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You don't deserve a "Dear" salutation. In fact, you don't deserve any warning; you never gave me any warning.

I may forgive you in my own way, and you may lack empathy and remorse let alone brains to comprehend this, but that does not mean that I will ever forget what you did to me.

I would have never had PTSD or any other related illnesses if you had not done what you did to me - all of you.

And to those who disbelieved me and/or sided with the offender, shame on you! How dare you side with them! Do you not realize that is called "secondary traumatic stress," too? You are just as guilty, if not more, for perpetuating the pain and causing my wounds to remain unhealed and infected for longer than they should have. You added to my trauma. You are guilty of that. I forgive you, too, but I will never forget.

I will NOT thank you for the experience or the post-traumatic growth; such thanks only go to those who believed me and truly helped me to heal - not you! I will not "learn from my experiences," but rather, I will move forward while exposing the trauma that you have done to me.

I may forgive you, but I don't have to like you. You took away that privilege with your own abusive actions. I have freedom to remain safe from you and anyone who is like you.

You stole from me, and there's nothing you can do to repay me. Nothing. But you will pay, eventually. I believe you will pay. I may not be there to see it, but your actions harm you - that's right - you, not just me. And I will not stoop to your level of abuse by wanting to see that. I don't want to ever be anywhere around you, and I'm sickened by the mere memories of you and those who behave like you.

You make life unbearable for all, including the bystanders who side with you unknowingly or knowingly. You all perpetuate the trauma. Know that! Eat it, chew it, digest it!

I may forgive you, but I will never forget.
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Old 11-10-2019, 11:46 AM   #143
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**** you, you cybercrime, bullying piece of ****! You lying ****! **** you, you criminal! You insane POS! **** you for trying to harm me and my friends, with your harassment, lies, BS, impersonations.

You need professional help, and one that doesn't enable your pathetic need for narcissistic supply, negative attention, false praise, or whatever the **** your insane reasonings are.

You factitious *****, you lying ****.

SOD OFF, **** OFF! Leave us the **** alone!

Or pay the consquences... because there WILL be consequences if you persist in your criminal ways - you *****!
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Old 12-03-2019, 08:43 PM   #144
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Why wouldn't you stop all contact with me? Stop being obsessed with me. Why won't you leave me alone like I had ask? Just leave me alone. Your a criminal. You deserved prison in a cell with no one around you. Your a sick person. You have mental illness. You refuse to get treatment for.
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Old 12-03-2019, 08:54 PM   #145
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Old 02-12-2020, 05:47 PM   #146
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How could you say that to someone who has always been there for you and took care of you even though you were always jealous of the attention you no longer had and teach your children to become bullies?
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Old 02-13-2020, 02:10 PM   #147
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I have given you so many chances even though you have never admitted abusing me for years and trying to drive me to suicide let alone say sorry, but you never change,you keep taking liberties,lying,stealing from me and gaslighting me.So you deserve for me to go 100% no contact with you which I haave done now.I am not sorry to lose you,you were never a sister to me,I have not lost a sister,I have lost my biggest enemy,That is a gain not a loss.
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Old 02-17-2020, 12:03 PM   #148
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Why not take a look at yourself resolved your problem instead of taking out your anger out on someone who had nothing to do with why you are feeling horrible about yourself?

When you took your anger out on me, made false accusations against me, threaten me, calling me names, yelled at me. When you could have removed yourself from toxic controlling people, place a boundaries when someone became angry at you probably because you were being rude to them and they call you out on your abusive attitude.

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Old 02-17-2020, 12:08 PM   #149
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I have given you so many chances even though you have never admitted abusing me for years and trying to drive me to suicide let alone say sorry, but you never change,you keep taking liberties,lying,stealing from me and gaslighting me.So you deserve for me to go 100% no contact with you which I haave done now.I am not sorry to lose you,you were never a sister to me,I have not lost a sister,I have lost my biggest enemy,That is a gain not a loss.
this is what my sibling and their kids do to me all the time.
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