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Old 10-19-2020, 06:40 PM   #241
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I don't understand how you ever thought that what you did was okay. It is never okay. You have created an environment of isolation. I now suffer from depression, generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, CPTSD. I started self harming because I didn't know what to do. I understand that I am blaming you for my actions against myself. I don't know if I will become sexually active because every time it crosses my mind, I think of you and what you did. I was 9, what made you think you could get away with it. I don't want you in my life, but at the same time I can't escape you.
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I am sorry, it's hard to know what to say sometimes because the last thing you want is to give the person who hurt you any more power over you.
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I don't understand how you ever thought that what you did was okay. It is never okay. You have created an environment of isolation. I now suffer from depression, generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, CPTSD. I started self harming because I didn't know what to do. I understand that I am blaming you for my actions against myself. I don't know if I will become sexually active because every time it crosses my mind, I think of you and what you did. I was 9, what made you think you could get away with it. I don't want you in my life, but at the same time I can't escape you.
This is what all abusers do. They attempt to create an environment of isolation. Sometimes they ''succeed''.. for a while. I hope you can become free from this monster.. It is ok to place the ''blame'' where it belongs, with the abuser. You are not at fault for this monster's actions.
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