Sod off you piece of **** What do you want to say to your abuser

Buffy01 · Jan 03, 2019 at 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Travelinglady

Fuzzy, you could write the letter and get your feelings out. But, honestly, I doubt they would understand. Have you read the book Toxic Parents? That might help.

That is great advice! I still take writing out your feeling will help you

Buffy01 · Jan 03, 2019 at 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by rebeka

"you hurt me terribly. i will try to forgive, even though ou don't deserve it"

I wish that I knew how to forgive

Buffy01 · Jan 03, 2019 at 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Pfrog

Possible trigger:

EFF Y'ALL

I wish that I had the courage to tell them that.

Buffy01 · Jan 03, 2019 at 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Anonymous59898

((Fuzzybear)) My hug buttons are not working but hugs to you Fuzzy & thanks for your post. Abusers: Stop hurting people.

I agree that you need a big hug!

Buffy01 · Jan 03, 2019 at 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Raindropvampire

I was three. How do you look at a baby and think that's ok to do? How? I want a reason an answer something to wrap my head around.

That a question I been asking for a long time that I wish I had am answer to.

Buffy01 · Jan 03, 2019 at 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by shovelhead

Thanks SO very much for my lifetime of alcoholism! I hope u suffer daily like I do! I wish u nothing but pain & misery until u die.

I wish that I had the courage to tell all of my.abuser that!

Buffy01 · Jan 03, 2019 at 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by LucyD

Leave me alone! I can't take it anymore! Stop ganging up on me with your husband! Get some help!

I had this happen to me all the time from my family and their friends and my ex friends!

Rive1976 · Jan 03, 2019 at 11:08 PM

I could be a normal human being!

Abusedbysister · Jan 04, 2019 at 12:41 PM

What I like to tell my abuser is🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬. When I am with her, I am like😰😰😰

Buffy01 · Jan 04, 2019 at 01:25 PM

I wish that you would let !e talk to you the whole that you talk to me. The constant put down. The constant yelling at you

Buffy01 · Jan 04, 2019 at 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Anonymous59898

((Fuzzybear)) My hug buttons are not working but hugs to you Fuzzy & thanks for your post. Abusers: Stop hurting people.

I think we all need a hug

Buffy01 · Jan 04, 2019 at 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by MrMoose

“Does being cruel give you an adrenaline rush?”

I actually have a lot to say to her, but I’ve learned that she thrives on having a fight, about anything, anytime, and in the end just devalues me, everything I say and everything I think. So I write it all down, and my replies, but I dont ever show it to her, and that works fine for me.

That is great advice!

Buffy01 · Jan 04, 2019 at 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by shovelhead

Hope you're sitting in prison right now, for countless years to come. Enjoy!

That one is my favorite

Buffy01 · Jan 04, 2019 at 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by raging vortex

why did you have kids if all you were planning to do was to abandon them and try your best to end their lives

you sick ****er. you don't deserve kids and you certainly don't deserve love

The question I ask my parents and my siblings I never got an answer from.

LabRat27 · Jan 09, 2019 at 12:20 AM

You think you're different than your father because you never hit us. But god, I used to wish that you would.
The last little bit of restraint between backing a child into a corner while screaming in their face in rage and actually hitting them doesn't make you a decent father.
Both of your children began self harming because of your abuse. Do you really think that makes you any better than a parent who does the beating themselves?

Jan 09, 2019 at 06:50 AM

The truth will come out. You may not be there to hear it but I'll try to get the message to you. I have to live with what you all did to me every day. You destroyed my life. I won't forget it.

Jan 09, 2019 at 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Cara8tz

The truth will come out. You may not be there to hear it but I'll try to get the message to you. I have to live with what you all did to me every day. You destroyed my life. I won't forget it.

Yes, may his or her true colors be exposed under the light;
May the mask be stripped off of him/ her.

Jan 09, 2019 at 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Abusedbysister

What I like to tell my abuser is🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬. When I am with her, I am like😰😰😰

I know, it's intimidating.

Jan 10, 2019 at 05:56 AM

You hide your abusive behavior well, until now, you may be having a leak.

Jan 12, 2019 at 12:07 AM

Now that you took everything that was MINE from me, are you happy?

Did you get what you want? 'cause that's all that really mattered wasn't it?

PS: I never took from you.

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Rive1976 Grand Poohbah Member Since Mar 2018 Location: USA Posts: 1,740 6 144 hugs given	Jan 03, 2019 at 11:08 PM #68 I could be a normal human being!

Abusedbysister Member Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Canada Posts: 128 6 199 hugs given	Jan 04, 2019 at 12:41 PM #69 What I like to tell my abuser is🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬. When I am with her, I am like😰😰😰

Buffy01 Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: USA Posts: 9,526 (SuperPoster!) 6 9,709 hugs given	Jan 04, 2019 at 01:25 PM #70 I wish that you would let !e talk to you the whole that you talk to me. The constant put down. The constant yelling at you

Anonymous59275 Guest Posts: n/a	Jan 09, 2019 at 06:50 AM #76 The truth will come out. You may not be there to hear it but I'll try to get the message to you. I have to live with what you all did to me every day. You destroyed my life. I won't forget it.

Anonymous59275 Guest Posts: n/a	Jan 10, 2019 at 05:56 AM #79 You hide your abusive behavior well, until now, you may be having a leak.

Anonymous59275 Guest Posts: n/a	Jan 12, 2019 at 12:07 AM #80 Now that you took everything that was MINE from me, are you happy? Did you get what you want? 'cause that's all that really mattered wasn't it? PS: I never took from you.