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Default Oct 19, 2018 at 03:38 PM
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You make me sick. Look at yourself and YOUR sickness for once. Stop your sick sick games. Get a grip and stop harming good people

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Default Oct 20, 2018 at 05:28 AM
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It's tough to come up with something, but I am going to go with:

I wish you had been sorry for what you did.
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Default Oct 20, 2018 at 08:56 AM
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I wish you'd realized how much your issues caused pain in your immediate family.
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Default Oct 20, 2018 at 09:11 AM
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I wish you realized how much you hurt me by what you said in the end. That was vicious and cruel beyond belief -- do you have any idea what that did to me? Who says that kind of thing except someone who is a total and complete monster? Only a monster would treat someone that way.... you are the spawn of the devil himself and I want nothing more to do with you, you scumbag A-hole. You never even deserved someone like me. I gave you everything, and that's how I get treated? How dare you treat me that way, after ALL I did for you.
 
 
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Default Oct 20, 2018 at 09:21 AM
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I want to say
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Default Oct 20, 2018 at 03:13 PM
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I don't really have anything to say so much as things I want to do. I'd like to cut off his hands. So he knows he can't put them just anywhere he wants. I think that says way more than I ever can with words.

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Default Oct 20, 2018 at 03:30 PM
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I’ve never been one to mince words. I said what I wanted to say whether it be by letter or to their face, even said it with silence and simply moving on without words. It felt good to get it out and they had it comin’. Did they care? Did it get under their skin? Did it matter? Probably not. But it helped me heal. Unless they are dead, it’s never too late to give them a what for. Take it from the Americans, we’ve let the bar down as low as it goes!

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Default Oct 20, 2018 at 03:40 PM
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I could send some of them a letter I guess. But I don’t think they are worth my time..



Although if I do turn into a polar bear I will eat that therapist . I would probably have indigestion for months

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Default Oct 20, 2018 at 09:56 PM
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Fuzzy, you could write the letter and get your feelings out. But, honestly, I doubt they would understand. Have you read the book Toxic Parents? That might help.
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Default Oct 21, 2018 at 12:44 AM
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"you hurt me terribly. i will try to forgive, even though ou don't deserve it"

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Default Oct 21, 2018 at 02:16 PM
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I cannot forgive your words, but I forgive you for being such a broken and tormented person in your heart and soul that you have to say such cruel things to make yourself feel better. It's very sad and pathetic that in order to feel better about yourself, and in order to protect yourself from any blame and responsibility, that you have to hurt someone else and make it seem different than it truly was. Keep lying and fooling yourself. I know the real truth.
 
 
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Default Oct 21, 2018 at 07:44 PM
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You make me sick. Look at yourself and YOUR sickness for once. Stop your sick sick games. Get a grip and stop harming good people

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((Fuzzybear)) My hug buttons are not working but hugs to you Fuzzy & thanks for your post. Abusers: Stop hurting people.
 
 
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Default Oct 21, 2018 at 09:05 PM
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I was three. How do you look at a baby and think that's ok to do? How? I want a reason an answer something to wrap my head around.

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Default Oct 26, 2018 at 03:51 PM
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Thanks SO very much for my lifetime of alcoholism! I hope u suffer daily like I do! I wish u nothing but pain & misery until u die.
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What do you want to say to your abuser?
“Does being cruel give you an adrenaline rush?”

I actually have a lot to say to her, but I’ve learned that she thrives on having a fight, about anything, anytime, and in the end just devalues me, everything I say and everything I think. So I write it all down, and my replies, but I dont ever show it to her, and that works fine for me.
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Default Nov 07, 2018 at 12:28 PM
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Leave me alone! I can't take it anymore! Stop ganging up on me with your husband! Get some help!

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Default Nov 08, 2018 at 06:55 PM
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Hope you're sitting in prison right now, for countless years to come. Enjoy!
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DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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