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Wisest Elder Ever
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Apr 08, 2019 at 03:00 PM
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Abusers slam the door on me.....
As if I am the “bad person”  Just like the maternal unit slammed her door on me... Options I keep reading or being told of.. Like “get a pet”.... Are not options for me. Sometimes I wonder if I’m that “hopeless” person All those abusers have loved to hate And they still do hate me and hurt me.....still I “trust” the “wrong” people and my paws get burnt again Stupid me (Not about anyone on pc) __________________ 
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Apr 09, 2019 at 01:08 AM
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You're not a bad person, Fuzzy. Sometimes the things people do are more about them and their problems than about you.
 
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Apr 09, 2019 at 09:32 AM
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 Thanks, HD7970GHZ __________________ "stand for those who are forgotten - sacrifice for those who forget" "roller coasters not only go up and down - they also go in circles" "the point of therapy - is to get out of therapy" "don't put all your eggs - in one basket" "promote pleasure - prevent pain" "with change - comes loss" |
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Apr 09, 2019 at 09:45 AM
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Abusers may seem so happy...
And we are often not.. I think the thing is that they “seem” happy.... Deep down they are profoundly insecure (etc) I do not think that being abusive is the way to be But I sort of know what you mean HD... They hurt others and are oblivious or uncaring of the harm they do.. While we struggle to “move on” from multiple abuses So they see us as “weak” and disposable? That is about them... I would not want to be an abuser, however “happy” they may seem...  
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Apr 10, 2019 at 12:02 PM
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__________________ "stand for those who are forgotten - sacrifice for those who forget" "roller coasters not only go up and down - they also go in circles" "the point of therapy - is to get out of therapy" "don't put all your eggs - in one basket" "promote pleasure - prevent pain" "with change - comes loss" |
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Apr 10, 2019 at 05:53 PM
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Abusers...
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