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Wisest Elder Ever
Member Since Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
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#1
I gave her no pleasure...
Her inability to be anything like close was MY fault.. Her lack of interest in me was MY fault.. Being deprived of basic necessities was my fault Being thrown out before I could fly was MY fault I’m a worthless human being.. All the sexual, physical, verbal abuse was my fault.. All the gaslighting.. my fault... I’m a disposable piece of garbage.. But even rubbish has more value than I do I’m a toy for abusers to play with and then violate and discard __________________ |
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Legendary Wise Elder
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Location: Northeast USA
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#2
It's time to turn all this around on her Fuzzy.
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Member Since Sep 2013
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#3
I agree with Open Eyes,
This all belongs to your abuser(s). They failed you miserably. My heart is broken hearing how poorly you have been treated. My teddies send hugs your way, HD7970ghz __________________ "stand for those who are forgotten - sacrifice for those who forget" "roller coasters not only go up and down - they also go in circles" "the point of therapy - is to get out of therapy" "don't put all your eggs - in one basket" "promote pleasure - prevent pain" "with change - comes loss" |
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#4
You're not a worthless human being. It would be better if you externalize your pain and not internalize it.
I did similar things. I believed I deserved to be abused, and I was a failure. This is not true. Abusers are to blame for what they do. We have no fault in it. |
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: UK
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#5
Maternal units...
They programmed us to believe such things MY MU always blamed me We are not to blame We survived the abuse And now live with the ongoing trauma We are strong |
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Wisest Elder Ever
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#6
Thank you everyone
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#7
When we are born, we are perfect and innocent. Somewhere alongthe way, someone tells us otherwise, and as children we believe it. Those were lies told by someone cruel and putting their issues on you.
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#8
You are precious, Fuzzybear.
You don't need to believe the delusions of abusers; they are not in their right minds. |
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Wisest Elder Ever
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#9
Thank you (((((((((( hugs ))))))))))
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