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Old 04-22-2019, 03:30 PM #1
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I gave her no pleasure...
Her inability to be anything like close was MY fault..
Her lack of interest in me was MY fault..
Being deprived of basic necessities was my fault
Being thrown out before I could fly was MY fault
Im a worthless human being..
All the sexual, physical, verbal abuse was my fault..
All the gaslighting.. my fault...
Im a disposable piece of garbage..
But even rubbish has more value than I do
Im a toy for abusers to play with and then violate and discard
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It's time to turn all this around on her Fuzzy.
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I agree with Open Eyes,

This all belongs to your abuser(s). They failed you miserably. My heart is broken hearing how poorly you have been treated.

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You're not a worthless human being. It would be better if you externalize your pain and not internalize it.

I did similar things. I believed I deserved to be abused, and I was a failure. This is not true. Abusers are to blame for what they do. We have no fault in it.
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Maternal units...

They programmed us to believe such things
MY MU always blamed me

We are not to blame
We survived the abuse
And now live with the ongoing trauma

We are strong
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Thank you everyone
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When we are born, we are perfect and innocent. Somewhere alongthe way, someone tells us otherwise, and as children we believe it. Those were lies told by someone cruel and putting their issues on you.
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You are precious, Fuzzybear.

You don't need to believe the delusions of abusers; they are not in their right minds.
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