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Trig Apr 22, 2019 at 03:30 PM
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I gave her no pleasure...
Her inability to be anything like close was MY fault..
Her lack of interest in me was MY fault..
Being deprived of basic necessities was my fault
Being thrown out before I could fly was MY fault
I’m a worthless human being..
All the sexual, physical, verbal abuse was my fault..
All the gaslighting.. my fault...
I’m a disposable piece of garbage..
But even rubbish has more value than I do
I’m a toy for abusers to play with and then violate and discard

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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 05:45 PM
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It's time to turn all this around on her Fuzzy.
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Default Apr 22, 2019 at 06:01 PM
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I agree with Open Eyes,

This all belongs to your abuser(s). They failed you miserably. My heart is broken hearing how poorly you have been treated.

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Default Apr 29, 2019 at 11:53 AM
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You're not a worthless human being. It would be better if you externalize your pain and not internalize it.

I did similar things. I believed I deserved to be abused, and I was a failure. This is not true. Abusers are to blame for what they do. We have no fault in it.
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Default May 07, 2019 at 02:39 PM
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Maternal units...

They programmed us to believe such things
MY MU always blamed me

We are not to blame
We survived the abuse
And now live with the ongoing trauma

We are strong
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Default May 07, 2019 at 03:21 PM
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Thank you everyone

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Default May 08, 2019 at 05:59 AM
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When we are born, we are perfect and innocent. Somewhere alongthe way, someone tells us otherwise, and as children we believe it. Those were lies told by someone cruel and putting their issues on you.
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You are precious, Fuzzybear.

You don't need to believe the delusions of abusers; they are not in their right minds.
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Thank you (((((((((( hugs ))))))))))

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Default May 15, 2019 at 05:51 PM
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