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Default Nov 18, 2019 at 09:30 PM
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Hello. My name is Irina. I dated a man of 7 years old and as a result a child was born a year ago. He treats me very badly. He has not visited the child since August. On the child’s birthday, I found out that he lives with another woman. I tried to talk to him, find out the truth, but he only yelled at me. I wrote to his brother on Facebook that his brother has a child. In a few days my baby's father called me and yelled "who you are? stay away from me and my family, you are harassing. I can’t understand how so? I don't know what to do now. I told him that I will go to court and he is telling me some things to make me feel guilty, like I wanted this child and he gave me what I wanted. I don't know what to do? Please advise something 😔Thank you.
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Hello. My name is Irina. I dated a man of 7 years old and as a result a child was born a year ago. He treats me very badly. He has not visited the child since August. On the child’s birthday, I found out that he lives with another woman. I tried to talk to him, find out the truth, but he only yelled at me. I wrote to his brother on Facebook that his brother has a child. In a few days my baby's father called me and yelled "who you are? stay away from me and my family, you are harassing. I can’t understand how so? I don't know what to do now. I told him that I will go to court and he is telling me some things to make me feel guilty, like I wanted this child and he gave me what I wanted. I don't know what to do? Please advise something 😔Thank you.
I'm sorry that you had to experience this. I would get a DNA testing proving he is the father and request he pay for child support. I would hire a private investigator to find out about his other family and prove that no harassment took place.
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I would add that you really need a family law lawyer to help protect the rights of your child and you.

I don't know how else to say this, but this guy just sounds like a complete jerk. You know what a real man does when his girl/woman gets pregnant? He steps up to the plate. Is all over it. Ditch this loser and find a real man. You deserve one and he is out there. Sending you positive vibes.

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