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Ooo Dec 28, 2019 at 02:27 AM
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Earlier I posted that I was angry that my sister refused to clean up after washing her dog in the bathtub. She even left two dog poops in a wastebasket after the dog pooped in the tub.

Someone had suggested before that I should put my sister's mess on her pillow to teach her a lesson. And today I kept thinking about how when we were teenagers, if my sister left a mess or didn't clean the cat litter box when it was her turn, our stepfather would put her mess on my pillow because he thought anything bad had to have been done by me.

I was fuming about this today after asking my sister to clean her dog's mess three times. Our stepfather taught her that she was too special to clean up after herself. And I was worried that putting off cleaning would cause some things to mildew when we can barely afford to buy bleach right now.

So I ended up having to wash the disgusting bathtub and hang up wet things to dry. And I put the two bags of dog poop in her shoes and threw the bath mat covered in dog hair on top.

Then I hid in my room and it got discovered almost immediately and she screamed insults and slammed the door. I don't now where this will lead, but I'm not going to let her use the good bathtub to wash her dog. I never feel quite safe taking a bath when I know her dog pooped in the tub during every bath.
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Default Dec 28, 2019 at 08:56 AM
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that's gross

cleaning up dog pooh isn't difficult. unpleasant, yes, but all dogs do it. humans do it. everything that lives do it (though maybe the rules are altered for trees), I don't blame you though- if I knew someone had poohed in a bath tub, I think I'd avoid it too.

luckily though I take showers. I think their a bit better for you. I was always taught growing up that a bath is just making you dirtier, as the water you are using is..... ugg I don't like to think about it
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Default Dec 28, 2019 at 06:16 PM
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Yeah, I know about bathtubs beong dirty. That's why I set up a nice bathtub thats only used for bathing after you shower. And I always clean the bathtub with disinfectant before a bath and rinse it out after.

And whenever my sister uses it, she leaves it full of crap and scum and bath additives. If I ask her to rinse it when she's done she just says "You always leave it dirty too." I think it's a narcissist thing to always make a counter accusation when she feels that her behavior is criticized. Yesterday she accused me of all sorts of things after I asked her multiple times to clean up after her dog. It makes me feel hopeless because I can't improve my livng conditions and I can't make myself get out of bed or work today even though we really need the money.
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Default Dec 29, 2019 at 08:51 PM
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I just need to vent for a moment: There's a wastebasket that I don't use. Every few months I notice that it is stuffed full of used sanitary napkins without a liner in the wastebasket. When I ask my sister to take out her ised sanitary napkins sje always tries to pass them off as mine even though I don't use that kind or the wastebasket.

She used to do this as a teenager, and our stepfather would deliberately bring other people witness him confronting us about it to try to embarass us both. She's 40 now and I sometimes still have to pick up gross napkins from the floor (with disposable gloves). I suppose I have to learn to see her tantrums and the silent treatment I get from asking her to clean up her messes as the behavior of a stunted personality.

Lately, I keep having dreams of parents who are either dead or that I refuse to see acting as if they are still a part of my life. I think it's because every time my sister does something horrible or selfish, I think that my parents are still impacting my life through the monster they created with bad parenting.
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