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Trig Jul 31, 2020 at 06:17 PM
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I'm 29, I live in the USA and I'm currently engaged to a wonderful woman. I'm not really good at this introduction thing but the rules say I have to so here goes nothing. I'm going to go ahead an apologize right now for this being so long..
In Nov. 2006 my world came to a screeching halt when I found out that my grandfather passed away. I was extremely close to him. Around the same time, a teacher at my high school wrote me a sexual note and decided to give it to me, my friend found the note and turned it in to the teacher. He was arrested in front of me and the entire school.
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The whole time this is all going on, my high school became unbearable. The other kids turned on me because "I locked up their favorite teacher". They called me a slut, a *****, that I was having an affair with him. They would trip me, spit on me, throw things a me, pretend to be my friend because someone dared them to. One day, a group of girls followed me into the bathroom and jumped me. They all took turns kicking me, punching me, one of them even bit me. I came home that night with a bloody nose and mouth, I told my mom what happened and she didn't care, she made me go back to school the very next day. I couldn't take it anymore so I dropped out of school with 6 weeks left of my 11th grade year.
There's so much more to say here but I feel like this is long enough for now.
Well there you have it, the beginning of an insane, horrible and somewhat unbelievable spiral of my life

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Heart Aug 01, 2020 at 12:27 PM
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Thanks for sharing these difficult memories. I'm so sorry you had to endure all of this. Actually, in a different way, I can relate to some of what you wrote. I was bullied both verbally & physically throughout high school. I was always too embarrassed to tell my parents outright what was going on. But they did find out after a while because, at one point, one of the bullies beat me up breaking my nose.

My parents sort-of inquired about it I guess. But the kid that beat me up apparently said I called him a name. So I got the blame for my beating. Everyone in the school, and my parents, knew what was going on. But nobody cared. It may be over-reaching a bit to say what happened to me over the course of those 4 years ruined my life. But it certainly didn't help. I hope that being here on PC, & sharing your story, will be of some comfort & support for you. Best wishes...

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