hi this is alicia.

and I want to know something

what I want to know is

why can't we hurt our throat because our mummy did it a lot and she strangled really tight

and we want to be like mummy because people say to us a lot you need to be like your mummy and set an example

so why can't we

we were told yesterday we can't

Please don't hurt yourself, raging

[Purple,Violet,Blue]

Alicia, dearest, your Mummy was ill when she did that.

Mums who aren't ill would never, ever do that, and you mustn't, either.

It's no wonder you get confused.

[Fuzzybear]

Hi Alicia,
I agree with purple, your mummy was ill. I used to want to be like mummy too. Or at least with mummy. But some mummys are too ill. Please don’t hurt yourself. We love you here.

Originally Posted by Purple,Violet,Blue

Alicia, dearest, your Mummy was ill when she did that.

Mums who aren't ill would never, ever do that, and you mustn't, either.

It's no wonder you get confused.

so mummy was bad?

Originally Posted by whispershadow

Please don't hurt yourself, raging

but why not

[Amyjay]

Well, you don't have to be like your mummy at all. You can be the person that you want to be. You can choose what you like and what you don't like and you can choose the things that you want to do.
You are 9 right? Mummies are really really not supposed to hurt their children whether they are 3 years old, 5 years old, 9 years old and even when they are adults. In fact it is against the law for any parent to hurt their child, especially in the way your mummy did to you. That's right, it was against the law for your mummy to do that to you. That law was made because all the people who make laws for England agreed that Mummies are supposed to love and protect their children always and never ever hurt them in cruel and awful ways.

Because your mummy didn't love and protect you in the ways she should have it is more important than ever that all the ones in there with you all help to take care of you now. Whoever told you you shouldn't hurt your throat was wise. You have been hurt far too many times already. Your throat has been hurt too many times already. Maybe one of the others could help you find other ways to be good and kind to you. Maybe a cool ice block would be nice to eat. What other ways could you be kind to you?

Originally Posted by Amyjay

Well, you don't have to be like your mummy at all. You can be the person that you want to be. You can choose what you like and what you don't like and you can choose the things that you want to do.
You are 9 right? Mummies are really really not supposed to hurt their children whether they are 3 years old, 5 years old, 9 years old and even when they are adults. In fact it is against the law for any parent to hurt their child, especially in the way your mummy did to you. That's right, it was against the law for your mummy to do that to you. That law was made because all the people who make laws for England agreed that Mummies are supposed to love and protect their children always and never ever hurt them in cruel and awful ways.

Because your mummy didn't love and protect you in the ways she should have it is more important than ever that all the ones in there with you all help to take care of you now. Whoever told you you shouldn't hurt your throat was wise. You have been hurt far too many times already. Your throat has been hurt too many times already. Maybe one of the others could help you find other ways to be good and kind to you. Maybe a cool ice block would be nice to eat. What other ways could you be kind to you?

why didn't my mummy go in a police car then and get taken away because if she's a naughty mummy then they should take her away and not let her look after children

hmh

I can listen to disney music and draw pictures of pussycats and doggies because I love those animals

[Amyjay]

Because they have to be caught. If no-one catches them, if no-one reports it, if no-one believes it they can get away with it.
Also they know its wrong so often they scare children into not telling. Because all children need their parents to love them even if they've done awful things often children are too scared to tell. Too scared they might get hurt more, too scared their parent will get in trouble, too scared they might get taken away.
it is against the law, but only a few parents get caught and get taken to jail. But even if they didn't get caught it is still wrong, it is still against the law, they are still not allowed to do that.

An it is a really good thing to think about and do things that make you happy.

[Amyjay]

Our parents didn't get taken to jail either. We told on them but people didn't believe us.

Originally Posted by raging vortex

but why not

You don't deserve to be hurt, love

Originally Posted by whispershadow

You don't deserve to be hurt, love

okay well we won't I suppose

but it's hard

yeah well... it is but I guess people are right when they say don't do it because it hurts

[amandalouise]

Originally Posted by raging vortex

yeah well... it is but I guess people are right when they say don't do it because it hurts

Im glad you decided not to hurt yourself. i am getting very worried about you all. maybe you or the one who made the account here can call a therapist or doctor who can help you all.

reading about strangling, hurt yourself or others is very scarey/ triggering and makes people worry about you because theres nothing we can do to stop you all if you really really want to and try to do it.

imagine if you came on here to psych central and read a post where someone was trying to hurt their self then the person reading it gets to feeling like you do and they try to hurt their self. or what if you had succeeded in hurting yourself and you were gone forever. I would be very very sad that you all would be gone from psych central forever because you got hurt. I would be very sad if I came on psych central and found a post saying you were gone.

when you feel so bad you want to hurt yourself maybe you can call the therapist and they can help you so that you dont end up gone forever even on accident.

licia Im very worried about raging vortex and you all right now.

Originally Posted by amandalouise

Im glad you decided not to hurt yourself. i am getting very worried about you all. maybe you or the one who made the account here can call a therapist or doctor who can help you all.

reading about strangling, hurt yourself or others is very scarey/ triggering and makes people worry about you because theres nothing we can do to stop you all if you really really want to and try to do it.

imagine if you came on here to psych central and read a post where someone was trying to hurt their self then the person reading it gets to feeling like you do and they try to hurt their self. or what if you had succeeded in hurting yourself and you were gone forever. I would be very very sad that you all would be gone from psych central forever because you got hurt. I would be very sad if I came on psych central and found a post saying you were gone.

when you feel so bad you want to hurt yourself maybe you can call the therapist and they can help you so that you dont end up gone forever even on accident.

licia Im very worried about raging vortex and you all right now.

we all take your point.. and our goal wasn't to trigger anyone else (we're sorry if we did)

our goalwas just to post how we felt