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I'm slowly getting more comfortable with them. I'm a 34a by the way, but I usually wear a 34b because the As fit kind of weird. I also get upset because they are too cone-y for my preference. The bf says he likes them, but sometimes I doubt him. And sometimes if i'm complaining, he'll say "well you could always get implants" (his way of being eternally supportive) but I take it as "OMG YOU HATE ME AND MY BOOBS!" |
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My mother has big boobs and every month when my A's would swell from PMS she would say, Maybe this month they will grow! I used to joke that I inherited them from my dad's side of the family because my dad had small breasts...
Then one day my mother commented on a grandniece, how terrible for her that she was flat, and I just went off on her! But of course I would, I have the same "problem"! I am beginning to see the point (one of them, at least) of this site. I never bragged about my "gifts" over my brother (my better grades in school) and actually I worked my butt off for them, while he watched TV. Point is, accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative, and boost up the neutral, that's why they invented the WonderBra. I've been walking around for YEARS as if my boobs don't exist (and after gaining 100 pounds, believe me, they DO), infuriating my female coworkers (I honestly don't understand why) because I rarely wore a bra, just a tshirt and blazer. Again, shame shame shame, that's what the parents always said. I guess I am doing pretty well, considering. |
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#23
Hello!
I was once really obsessed with my small breast size. I was a small 34a. It drove me CRAZY that I didn't have what I thought was what every man wanted. This plagued me for years. I fantasized about breast implants but was too cheap and too chicken to get them. Plus, I didn't want to mess up whatever I had cosmetically. Finally, 10 years later, I realized one day that my size was perfect. I am still a 34a. I HATE wearing a bra. Luckily, with a 34a, no bra is really necessary! Believe me, you are beautiful the way you are. Love your size. Don't buy into the tv and movie images of big fake boobs. Give yourself time to grow into them. Small is beautiful especially without bras to hold them up! |
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Oh, I almost forgot one important tidbit! I was out shopping one day about a year ago. I had on a very low cut shirt and a good push up bra. One of the store people actually stopped me and asked me if I had had my boobs done. I was on cloud nine that she thought my boobs were done! I smiled, told her to just gain 10 pounds and she would have them too. I was the happiest person on the Earth that day...
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#25
I've been a 34B for years and it hasn't stopped me from getting a date (or a husband, either). As long as I take care of myself physically and emotionally it doesn't really matter what my breast size is.
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I have 32B and was teased for years. I think the teasing from immature guys/girls is the problem and NOT our bodies. Some men (and women, depending on their sexuality) like smaller breasts. Forget the media and forget the haters. Women are beautiful no matter what their size! Flaunt what you got, big or small, because you are a beauty, lady!
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I'm very large chested and plan to get a reduction when I'm done having children. I envy women who can wear tank tops or do exercise or wear bikini tops without all the uncomfortable bounce. Don't even get me started on the back pain either. You should embrace what your body has and try to look at the benefits. For me I try to focus on the fact that my crazy size proportion makes my natural waist look tiny.
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I haven't read all the responses, but I just wanted to say that, as a large breasted woman, I wish I was less endowed. Many men I know say, honestly, that they prefer smaller breasts, because they remain perky and pretty for a lot longer, and because they're more delicate and nicer to play with. The fact is, some men like big boobs, some men like small boobs. Some men see the beauty in the different sorts of breasts. My mother was a small breasted woman, and (having seen her with her top off quite a lot when I was younger) I can categorically tell you that she was beautiful. As a girl I wanted nothing more than to grow up and look like my Mum in every way. (Obviously something went very wrong...)
Don't worry about your breast size. Women are always disatisfied. I wish mine were more like yours, you wish yours were more like mine... men just enjoy them. Relax, I'm sure your boyfriend is telling you the truth when he says that they're perfect. They're just right for your body, and he can see that. I wish I could persuade you of the fact, but your body type is one that's very much admired, and has been throughout history. Rejoice in yourself... you're beautiful. __________________ Here I sit so patiently Waiting to find out what price You have to pay to get out of Going through all these things twice. |
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One thing you can do to boost confidence is go for styles that compliment smaller breasts. There have been times in history that small breasts were preferred to compliment fashion.
Lots of men like small breasts. Trust me. Not to be rude, but itty-bitty-titties are just as sexy, and there are plenty of celebrities who aren't afraid of theirs! http://www.popsofa.com/wp-content/up...-knightley.jpg http://images.starpulse.com/Photos/P...r-movie-02.jpg http://stbjp.msn.com/i/CE/388F9D5F1E...E3B6282B67.jpg http://loveashley.net/2010/07/01/gor...small-breasts/ I would honestly see natural smaller breasts than implants any day. I can see getting implants if it caused a person a lot of distress because their boobs were not the same size, if they had a mastectomy, but just having normal smaller breasts... why? They're lovely! __________________ "... am I gonna explode?" |
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#30
I don't think it matters who is envious of who.
I don't think it matters what the opinion of the average male is. I don't think it matters what society sees as "ideal." I don't think a woman's breast size should be the deciding factor of her sex appeal and/or worth as a human being. I think what matters is is how we view ourselves - in spite of criticism, in spite of compliments. __________________ Rise up above it, high up above it and see. |
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#31
I was a 36A until I had children. My breasts never went back to their pre-pregnancy size. I am a 40C-D now. I preferred it when I was smaller. It is really a hassle to exercise and find a bra that is comfortable and provides adequate support when exercising.
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#32
I agree with those who mentioned being comfortable with our breast size is more about accepting ourselves than anything else. I'm a 34B. Never wanted bigger breasts. I always though big ones would get in my way. Over the years I've gotten teased about my breast size. I finally came up with what I think it the perfect response "I've never gotten a complaint from anyone who counts." That usually shuts 'em up right away!
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#33
lizards have breasts?!
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#35
Be yourself, like yourself. Do that and no one who matters will care what your bra size is.
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#36
I've got "perfectly average boobs" actording to some. I'm a 34/36 b/c depending on the make of the bra, and time of the month. Honestly I could keep the B i just wish my ribcage wasn't so big!
My girlfriend has really small boobs, I think 34a, maybe smaller. I love them! She only wears a bra if she's dressing up for me, and I'm always enviouse. She's so beautiful and I couldn't imagine her any other way. I honestly love her boobs, and am so happy that they're so small... I won't go into details As for my own size, I wish I was smaller if anything. I wish I could go braless, and I wish I didn't have to worry about sag. And from an actors perspective it would make it a lot easier to fit into different rolls. I would love to play some of the guys parts they give to women, but I'm just big enough to need bindings... __________________ "You can't hop a jet plain like you can a freight train" - Gordon Lightfoot "It starts with light, and ends with light, and in between there is darkness" -I forget "Got to kick at the darkness 'til it bleeds daylight" -BNL
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#37
I think that too much is made of breast size. I am on the small side but my husband still finds them sexy anyway. Some guys who fixate on breasts may be disappointed perhaps but I have plenty of other nice features to keep them interested
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