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Default Sep 19, 2017 at 11:47 PM
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I have female friends but I keep them at a distance.

I have a Type A personality and that can be hard. They are a bit passive aggressive.

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Default Sep 20, 2017 at 12:02 AM
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I have female friends but I keep them at a distance.

I have a Type A personality and that can be hard. They are a bit passive aggressive.


I agree. Passive aggressiveness is a psychological war.

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Default Sep 22, 2017 at 10:13 AM
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Recently I was yelling at my youngest daughter. My boyfriend said we weren't communicating to each other in any way and we should see a therapist to learn how. He said to try and be curious and ask what she wanted, to listen, and respond. I put my frustration away and did that. I wonder if I've learnt to respond to a female being *****y by rolling up my sleeves and entering the fray. My mom is an alcoholic and hunted me to find out ways to hurt me. I am going to try getting closer to other ladies with the idea that I can be okay if they get angry.
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Default Oct 13, 2017 at 07:27 PM
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I feel you so much. This is exactly me. Whole life I was rather friends with men - it is just much easier, straightforward and honest. I found only few women who are similar. I also don't get the unspoken rules and useless drama over insignificant matters. Just few days ago I had to deal with one of such female friends - so much negative energy and all those problems just taking me down..

We should stay away from the crowd, to see how many of us is there. All those society rules..

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