Feeling Foolish

Cielpur,

Just read this thread; perhaps you did not get an immediate response simply because many of us are not in the habit of going to the all the areas within PC. I think the Relationships and Communications subforum may get the most traffic.

I am sorry you have been hurt be all these people. I have seen many instances where you have tried to help others at PC so I do not think you are deserving of this. No one is.

I have no insight/advise about your situation other than block all these people who have treated you so badly. They do not deserve your time.

Other than coworkers (while on the job) and family--I do not befriend other men other than saying hello/completely small talk. I do have one male (nonfamily) fb friend but he is on the other side of the world. We do not flirt. We are both married. We were in the same class in eighth grade and we did date but it was completely innocent because we were so young. We were testing the waters but I never had any romantic feelings for him. My T is retiring. She suggested a male T to me but out of respect to my H (he does not want me to see a male T--I understand this) I am going to look for a female T. So I think many people who have SOs are hesitant to be friends after they have dated. They do this out of respect for their partner.