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Tongue Mar 15, 2020 at 07:37 PM
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I was relaxing in my room in a pretty long sports bra, nothing sexual and my brother got so uncomfortable when he walked in. meanwhile, he'll walk around the house with no shirt half the day and nobody bats an eye. like I can't relax without judgment. bras are uncomfortable but I can't take this thing off cus no place is safe. even my mom will get onto me(she never knocks but that's another issue lol). I am 18 in the privacy of my room and people get so upset when I actually try to relax. I wish i could get my own place but I don't have money and I'm too busy to get a job.
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Sexist double-standards, sadly. For absurd reasons, men can go without a shirt but people flip at the sight of breasts or even just bras. I still share my house with people so I don't feel comfortable wearing just a bra, let alone topless.

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Sexist double-standards, sadly. For absurd reasons, men can go without a shirt but people flip at the sight of breasts or even just bras. I still share my house with people so I don't feel comfortable wearing just a bra, let alone topless.
I'm kinda used to people seeing me topless since I post porn lol :P
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That's the thing. Breasts are seen as sexual and turn men on--so it sends the wrong message. Women aren't necessarily turned on by men's chests.
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I think I could write a book on this one, but I won’t....

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Default Jun 09, 2020 at 12:18 AM
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He's not some "guy". He's your brother. You've also referred yourself as a nymphomaniac. You've posted nude photos of yourself online.. and you're a minor. Your whole family have been made aware of this and are greatly concerned. I suspect because of this, you've made your brother uncomfortable.. so the sight of you in a bra is now a trigger for him. He doesn't want to see his sister in a sexual way.

I'm surprised he's still walking into your room.
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Default Jul 16, 2020 at 02:17 PM
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eh, I get told off when I don't wear pants underneath my pj gown. last night the staff said "put some pants on there are male staff on" I didn't think much of it...it kinda made me laugh

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Why not lock the door so people can't just walk in?
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