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Default Jul 21, 2019 at 05:45 PM
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Did you disclose to anyone that you had that job interview? I wonder if this is all part of that-like if they found out somehow. Like even through references if the new place called to verify employment?

Nope. There's no way they would know. However, when I took a day off a few weeks back last minute, my boss thought it was for an interview. He was worried then that I was looking.
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Default Jul 21, 2019 at 06:01 PM
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That’s hard. Golden Eve. I’m not sure then. I wish I had some good advice for you on how you can spin this in your favor but I really don’t know. I’m in a career where I don't have co-workers or a CEO or anything like that so I am unsure on how to navigate anything corporate. I’ve gone back and read this whole thread and all I can say is I’m really sorry this is going on. Normally I don’t travel to this side of the forum but I was drawn to your thread and felt absolutely terrible for you because I remember this torture years ago with my husband..and the waiting game. It’s awful. I offer hugs and a listening ear.
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Default Jul 21, 2019 at 06:30 PM
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That’s hard. Golden Eve. I’m not sure then. I wish I had some good advice for you on how you can spin this in your favor but I really don’t know. I’m in a career where I don't have co-workers or a CEO or anything like that so I am unsure on how to navigate anything corporate. I’ve gone back and read this whole thread and all I can say is I’m really sorry this is going on. Normally I don’t travel to this side of the forum but I was drawn to your thread and felt absolutely terrible for you because I remember this torture years ago with my husband..and the waiting game. It’s awful. I offer hugs and a listening ear.

Thank you SO much. I really appreciate your support and compassion. It's definitely torturous waiting like this, not knowing and feeling awful.
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Default Jul 27, 2019 at 06:06 PM
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My CEO called a meeting with me today to "discuss my annual review", which really, as it turns out, was to tell me he has a decision to make and he may let me go??

I had a GREAT annual review, btw, and I've had great performance in my year there.

So it turns out that it has to do with my A-hole boss misconstruing things I've said to him and whispering in the CEO's ear. My boss, I have now figured out, IS TRYING TO GET ME FIRED.

I am beside myself!

So I tried to clear up the misconstrued info with the CEO today, and then separately and later on, with our HR representative as well.

She told me that what I had to say about everything is very different than what she's heard.

IF I lose my job, I am screwed financially. I am stressed beyond belief.... and the fact that this wouldn't be performance related??????

I also have NO recourse legally IF I am let go. I am an employee at will, which means they can fire me without cause.

ARGH!!!!!!!!

Just trying to receive some support right now since I am so upset and distraught...
I am sorry that this has happened to you! I was force to quit because I was about to be fires because of my disability!
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