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Default Jul 29, 2020 at 02:23 PM
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Cool about the radio interview. My husband did that once, he was a bit nervous at first, but seemed to enjoy it.

My freelance client has been giving me some different types of projects to work on. It's nice to have a change of pace and I also take it as a sign that they want me to stick around for a while. I don't think they would spend time helping me train on additional project types if they don't plan on continuing to send me work.

That’s great news! I’m happy to hear it!
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Default Jul 30, 2020 at 12:16 PM
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One bit of good news is my supervisors are so much better than the ones I used to have. A lot of people are away on holiday next month and they need cover but instead of just putting me down for the lot with no choice they actually asked me nicely if I could work extra and I could choose my shifts. This is so much more pleasant an environment to work in.
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Default Aug 02, 2020 at 05:23 AM
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I finally reached over 20 hours of work each week next month. I am ok but am tired most of the time though. The prep work is monumental. I spend half of my time doing prep work for my classes. But, the rest of the time I sleep. I am happy I finally reached my goal of working over 20 hours a week. It means a lot to me because I can support myself barely now.
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I finally reached over 20 hours of work each week next month. I am ok but am tired most of the time though. The prep work is monumental. I spend half of my time doing prep work for my classes. But, the rest of the time I sleep. I am happy I finally reached my goal of working over 20 hours a week. It means a lot to me because I can support myself barely now.
I'm happy for you, bpforever, and I totally understand the exhaustion of working so much and prepping for work and all that. Still feels good, I'm sure, to support yourself though.

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Default Aug 04, 2020 at 07:45 PM
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Well, I got a loan that will cover my new employee for a number of months, until she's up to speed and producing, and it will likely be forgiven too! I am very grateful for this opportunity the universe has given me to grow my business. It feels scary sometimes, but I know it's going to be great. All change is scary, and this is a big change, but I also know this is the next step.

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Default Aug 06, 2020 at 05:00 AM
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It feels great to support myself but it is hard work. I am running around sometimes like a chicken with its head cut off. I am busy although I work a little over 20 hours a week. It took me three hours today to prep for five lessons though and this is not included in the 20 hours of teaching I do. I was asked to implement some new teaching methods into my lessons too. So, I must do this and have to think about how I am going to do this. But, overall, I am doing great and am grateful to my family and my company. Most of all, I am happy that my medication is working!
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Default Aug 06, 2020 at 05:46 AM
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I have an interview for a Director level role! That's the good news. He hasn't replied to my first response in order to confirm a date and time. It's been 48 hours and I am waiting impatiently.

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Default Aug 11, 2020 at 02:37 PM
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Wow, so I had someone who got referred to me check out my new website and read about me, then she contacted me using my client inquiry form. When I talked to her, she said my website was very professional and my approach and expertise was apparent, which is why she decided to reach out. And I signed her today, and it will be a good size contract. I had just told my new employee that I was going to suspend new client acquisition for a few weeks while I work to train her on our current accounts, but this one came through and since it was a referral, I took it and it's just going to be great. The funny thing is that with my new employee, I had done the financials and figured we needed to add X amount to break even between her and my salary and expenses for the year. I had thought it would be multiple projects, but this one could completely fill that gap. I'm amazed at how our hard work continues to pay off.

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It feels great to support myself but it is hard work. I am running around sometimes like a chicken with its head cut off. I am busy although I work a little over 20 hours a week. It took me three hours today to prep for five lessons though and this is not included in the 20 hours of teaching I do. I was asked to implement some new teaching methods into my lessons too. So, I must do this and have to think about how I am going to do this. But, overall, I am doing great and am grateful to my family and my company. Most of all, I am happy that my medication is working!


Good for you bpforever while you are working hard right now with the lesson planning after a while that will come easier. Most teachers do more than just the time they are teaching. You’ll get better at this.
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Default Aug 15, 2020 at 09:26 AM
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My client was very happy with my first attempt at one of the new project types I was assigned!
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Default Aug 17, 2020 at 10:09 AM
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Good work news for me is that I was able to get reinstated at my job after taking a bit of time off due to depression and stuff.

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Default Sep 05, 2020 at 04:41 AM
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I've increased my firm's hourly rate twice this summer, and now we're billing over $100/hr. It's a huge accomplishment just to value my contributions at that rate and not feel like an imposter. I know money or pay is not an indicator of worth, but i realized there is something to be said for valuing one's self to the world and showing you do. Since I raised our rates or my rate, really, I've been getting more serious, better quality clients and things are really taking off. I could not have believed I'd be where I am right now 3 years ago, when I got laid off. I'm not absolving them of any wrongdoing in that layoff, which I sued them over (and settled), but 3 years later I'm certainly glad I'm not letting anyone boss me around anymore and that I'm taking all my expertise and letting it work for me instead of for someone else.

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Default Sep 25, 2020 at 04:50 AM
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There is a new opening for a contract employee position at my company. I applied for it. The pay is not great but the position should have benefits. I don't know what to expect. I am happy about it and am keeping my finger crossed. I hope I can work as a company employee then become a permanent employee. It would be a dream!
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You will get it, bpforever!!
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Default Sep 26, 2020 at 04:35 AM
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Breaking Dawn, thank you for the vote of confidence! Well, we shall see what happens. I'm not totally confident about getting the job, but am hoping for the best nevertheless.
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Default Nov 18, 2020 at 07:25 PM
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I had a call with the client I do freelance writing for. They said they are really happy with my work. They are raising my hourly rate by 10% and are going to pay for me and the other writers to take some sort of professional development course for business writers.
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Default Nov 23, 2020 at 09:54 AM
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I feel like I should post something here along the lines of this has been a tough year but I am just grateful that I still have a job I like. Not news as such but wanted to acknowledge my good fortune.
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All the best and remember to work hard and you will reap the benefits.
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