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Default Oct 12, 2020 at 08:35 AM
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Ugh - that's not right. Being older doesn't give a person the right to treat someone younger as though they're stupid. That's really annoying. Maybe they're stupid, lol.
Yeah I agree. Also if I give any ideas or answer a question they usually ignore and sometimes even act annoyed and dismiss it. And when I am right, they don’t acknowledge it or anything.
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Yeah I agree. Also if I give any ideas or answer a question they usually ignore and sometimes even act annoyed and dismiss it. And when I am right, they don’t acknowledge it or anything.
That's terrible! This should be addressed somehow by the higher ups.

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Speaking of not liking where you work, I interviewed yesterday for two jobs. The first I am really interested in. The second? I got the feeling that I would hate that job. There's only 7 full time employees, it's all remote work, there wouldn't be much interaction going on between people, so I would be working very solo, with just the supervisor above me and freelancers. EEEK. I had that situation once for three years, and I absolutely hated it. I need interaction, and I need to be working with people every day in some capacity. I need to not work solo all the time, holed up alone in my house. It's not good for my mental health.

What's my point? I think it's really helpful to know what you need and want out of a job ahead of time when you're applying for jobs.

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That's terrible! This should be addressed somehow by the higher ups.
Yep I agree.
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Speaking of not liking where you work, I interviewed yesterday for two jobs. The first I am really interested in. The second? I got the feeling that I would hate that job. There's only 7 full time employees, it's all remote work, there wouldn't be much interaction going on between people, so I would be working very solo, with just the supervisor above me and freelancers. EEEK. I had that situation once for three years, and I absolutely hated it. I need interaction, and I need to be working with people every day in some capacity. I need to not work solo all the time, holed up alone in my house. It's not good for my mental health.

What's my point? I think it's really helpful to know what you need and want out of a job ahead of time when you're applying for jobs.
Well I’m glad you like the first interview! Follow your gut. I completely agree with you.
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Well I’m glad you like the first interview! Follow your gut. I completely agree with you.
Thank you!

I had another interview Thursday - this company wanted this person to manage 5-6 people to start with, then grow that to managing up to 15 people for a pretty low salary. I was astounded. So, basically, they were saying we will overwork and underpay you.

I turned down the chance for a second interview with that company. NO THANKS.

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Thank you!

I had another interview Thursday - this company wanted this person to manage 5-6 people to start with, then grow that to managing up to 15 people for a pretty low salary. I was astounded. So, basically, they were saying we will overwork and underpay you.

I turned down the chance for a second interview with that company. NO THANKS.
Wow! Good choice! That sounds awful. I had a similar situation where I could potentially work 8 hours or more a day for just 10 dollars per hour. Right now I work 5 hours for 17.87 an hour. I prefer to keep the job I have now than take another job with poor pay.
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Wow! Good choice! That sounds awful. I had a similar situation where I could potentially work 8 hours or more a day for just 10 dollars per hour. Right now I work 5 hours for 17.87 an hour. I prefer to keep the job I have now than take another job with poor pay.
Smart move!!! Who are they kidding, right? That's how I felt about this job interview - like, you've got to be kidding me. They were willing to pay someone 30K less than what they should be for managing 15 people in my field!!!! Yep.

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Smart move!!! Who are they kidding, right? That's how I felt about this job interview - like, you've got to be kidding me. They were willing to pay someone 30K less than what they should be for managing 15 people in my field!!!! Yep.
Yep exactly! They are ridiculous to think that anyone would be okay with that!
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Yep exactly! They are ridiculous to think that anyone would be okay with that!
I know.. insane. I removed myself from the interview process altogether. Why bother.

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I know.. insane. I removed myself from the interview process altogether. Why bother.
Yep exactly. That's good that you got out.
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Yep exactly. That's good that you got out.
Definitely.

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Definitely.
Yep exactly.
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